How to Overcome Trauma After A Public Tragedy

How to overcome trauma after a tragedy

In the Wake of Tragedy: Overcome Trauma from the Charlie Kirk Incident

The shocking assassination of Charlie Kirk during a recent Utah event has left our community grieving, confused, and emotionally raw. As a result, many who attended or witnessed the tragedy, are now  faced with the challenge of how to overcome trauma and begin the healing process. The pain is not just emotional — it’s physiological. Your nervous system doesn’t just feel trauma — it stores it.

At Clear Mind Utah, we specialize in helping the nervous system recover from shock, overwhelm, and emotional dysregulation through gentle, non-invasive support. In this difficult time, our hearts are with those affected. Whether you or a loved one is struggling, you’re not alone — and there is help. 

Understanding How to Overcome Trauma by Healing the Nervous System

When deeply upsetting events happen, the nervous system reacts instantly. Here’s how your body may respond to trauma:

Your Stress Response Activates

The body’s natural alarm system — the sympathetic nervous system — kicks in. This is the well known “Fight or Flight” response. In these moments, you might experience:

  • Increased heart rate

  • Rapid or shallow breathing

  • Muscle tightness

  • Feeling on edge or emotionally distant

  • A flood of adrenalin and cortisol 

This stress response is protective — it’s your body’s way of staying alert and ready to take action.

The Freeze or Shutdown Response: When Overwhelm Takes Over

However, not everyone responds to trauma with fight or flight. When the brain perceives danger as inescapable or too intense to process, it can trigger a different survival mode: the freeze response — where the body and mind momentarily shut down.

This isn’t weakness — it’s your nervous system protecting you.

You might feel:

  • Disconnected or emotionally numb

  • Sudden fatigue or exhaustion

  • Trouble focusing or making decisions

  • “Stuck” or mentally frozen

  • Detached from your body or surroundings (dissociation)

  • Time distortion — moments feel slow or unreal 

  • Inability to speak or respond normally

Physically, your body may show signs like:

  • Muscles locking up or going immobile

  • Breathing slows or becomes shallow

  • A sudden drop in heart rate (bradycardia)

  • Heaviness, numbness, or even paralysis

This is your body’s “pause” button much like how animals instinctively “play dead” when escape isn’t possible. While this response is natural and protective, remaining in it for too long can impact sleep, mood, and relationships.

How Trauma Affects the Brain

How Trauma Affects the Brain & Body

When trying to overcome trauma, it’s important to understand that trauma doesn’t just live in the mind — it leaves a lasting imprint on the brain and nervous system. 

According to the National Institute of Mental Health, traumatic experiences can alter how the brain functions, especially when the event is sudden, violent, or deeply distressing.

As Harvard Health Publishing explains, the brain’s built-in stress response is designed to protect us. But when trauma is  overwhelming or ongoing, this system can get stuck in survival mode.

Here’s what happens:

  • Amygdala (fear detector): Becomes overactive, keeping your body in a constant state of alert.

  • Prefrontal cortex (reasoning center): May shut down, making it harder to think clearly, make decisions, or manage emotions.

  • Hippocampus (memory organizer): Can become impaired, leading to foggy thinking, fragmented memories, or intrusive flashbacks.

When this imbalance persists, it can show up as:

  • Anxiety or panic attacks

  • Insomnia or recurring nightmares

  • Emotional outbursts or numbness

  • Difficulty concentrating or remembering

These aren’t just emotional issues — they are physiological signs that your nervous system is overwhelmed. The good news? Understanding these patterns is the first step toward healing. See our Neurofeedback Research page to find out what other conditions our service supports. 

Local Trauma Support in Utah: What to Do If You Witnessed a Tragedy

Whether you were physically present at the recent tragedy or deeply shaken by the news, there are steps you can take right now to begin healing your nervous system and overcome trauma.

1. Acknowledge Your Emotions

There’s no “right” way to feel after something traumatic. Give yourself permission to experience sadness, fear, anger, or even numbness — all are valid.

2. Talk to Someone

Speak with a trauma-informed therapist, a trusted spiritual leader, or a local support group. Processing with others helps restore emotional safety.

3. Support Your Body with Rest and Nutrition

Sleep, hydration, and gentle movement give your nervous system the resources it needs to reset. Start small and be kind to yourself.

4. Limit Media That Triggers You

It’s tempting to stay glued to the news, but too much exposure can retraumatize the brain. Be mindful about how much you’re consuming.

5. Consider Gentle Nervous System Support

At Clear Mind Utah, we specialize in IASIS Microcurrent Neurofeedback (MCN) — a safe, non-invasive technology that helps “unstick” the brain from chronic stress, helping you overcome trauma. Many clients report:

  • Better sleep
  • Decreased anxiety
  • Clearer focus and memory
  • A deep sense of calm and emotional balance

What IASIS MCN Can Do to Help You Overcome Trauma

IASIS MCN (Microcurrent Neurofeedback) is a non-invasive, drug-free method that uses a low-intensity signal to help the brain shift out of stress mode and return to balance.

Unlike traditional talk therapy, MCN doesn’t require you to relive traumatic experiences. Instead, it works gently in the background — most people don’t feel the signal at all, yet the brain begins to respond.

As a result, many people report:

  • Fewer emotional outbursts and better emotional control

  • Clearer thinking and reduced brain fog

  • More stable moods and faster recovery from stress

  • Deeper, more restorative sleep

This approach helps your brain do what it was designed to do — reset, reorganize, and heal from within.

What Makes Clear Mind Utah Different?

At Clear Mind Utah, we believe personalized care makes all the difference — and it shows.

Extended Weekday Hours: We know life is busy. That’s why we offer flexible evening appointments to fit your schedule.

Saturday Sessions: Because healing shouldn’t have to wait until Monday.

Award-Winning Care: Named Best Neurofeedback Provider in Utah for both 2024 and 2025, we’re proud to be recognized for our results-driven approach, attention to detail, and compassionate client care.

Outcomes That Matter: Our clients don’t just feel heard — they feel better. We’re here to help you reset, recharge, and rise stronger.

Seeing How Clients Overcome Trauma: Real Stories

I feel like I have tried a million different techniques and nothing was helping with my overthinking, anxiety and depression. Medication only worked temporarily before the side effects were more prevalent than the benefits. I would 10/10 recommend it!

I have loved my experience with Clear Mind Utah. I have had amazing results with MNF. From the very first session I have slept better than I have in years! My stress and anxiety have dwindled and I feel truly happy! Brain fog is a thing of the past! I would highly recommend Troy and Valerie at Clear Mind Utah.

I love Clear Mind! To be honest, I was in a really bad place when I first came in. I'm normally a very happy, bubbly person, but when I first started with Clear Mind I was very, very depressed and talk therapy was only helping about 1%. After just 4 sessions, I noticed I felt lighter mentally. My life looked better, when all my normal "positive thinking" methods didn't help before; I knew Clear Mind was helping me return to the person I was by restoring my healthy brain waves. I know it sounds like snake oil, but IT WORKS!!! I highly recommend Clear Mind in American Fork to anyone. If you feel you need help, go to Clear Mind!

Ready to Feel Like Yourself Again?

If you’ve been affected by recent events and your nervous system feels overwhelmed, you don’t have to carry it alone. Clear Mind Utah offers gentle trauma recovery support, serving Salt Lake and Utah counties. 

Schedule a Free Consultation Today! 

📞 Call or Text: (385) 304-4434

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